Discover and read the best of Twitter Threads about #ghosting

Most recents (5)

Therapist Thread on #Narcissistic Injury & Narcissistic Rage 🧵: the reactions are disproportionate the the perceived 'slight', which is the injury. They are 'over the top'. For e.g. they want you to lose your entire career because you disagree with them on something.
Narcissistic injury is caused by: 1.challenged confidence. When there excessive needs for admiration your attention, time, energy are not met, they will #rage to protect their ego. 2. Injury to the narcissists #selfesteem often occurs because they don't have a stable sense of
Self. When this happens & the smallest failure is pointed out, they will #RAGE This may look like swearing, snorting, spitting, violence, screaming & melting down or covert and is always directed back at the person or projected back on the 'perceived' accuser.
Read 23 tweets
THREAD: Everything is connected.

And so many of our modern societal problems & issues stem from disconnection.

This thread is about both connections b/w socio-cultural issues (connecting the dots) & also about connections between people. Those 2 things are connected.

/1
What we have here is human disconnectedness caused - in part - or at least greatly contributed to - by technological (over)connectedness. Another big contributing factor, I believe, is our traditional gender norms around #masculinity.

/2
Think about the phenomenon of employer “ghosting” during an interview process when they aren’t giving a candidate the job. I’ve learned it is quite common these days to not let that person know. You just stop communicating.

#ghosting #recruiting #HR

/3
Read 15 tweets
#Narcissism thread 🧵 15 (more) questions to ask yourself if you are questioning whether someone is a #narcissist
1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
Are they #superior? For e.g. A non lawyer preaching to a lawyer about law. 2. Are they #defensive? Do they seem only interested in trying to prove that they are right & you are wrong, in a defensive mode? 🚩They are #competitive not co-operative. Co-operation is a must #healthy
3. Do they demand #attention from you? For e.g., insisting on having the conversation when it’s convenient for them only &/or use emotional #manipulation to ensure conversation happens on ‘their’ terms? They may not answer the question, go off topic, deflect, defensive, accuse 🚩
Read 23 tweets
Ada yg pernah ngalami sembelit atau susah buang air besar (BAB)? seperti mas @hivolltescargot ? Berapa kali harusnya BAB?
Karena sempet rame kemaren yg diet sampe gak BAB berhari-hari, jadi yuk kita bahas, apa itu sembelit & bahaya nggak sih gangguan itu?

[ a thread ] bismillah
Sembelit /konstipasi adalah kelainan di sistem pencernaan, dimana kita ngalamin pengerasan tinja yg berlebihan, jadi sulit dikeluarin & bikin sakit di “knalpot”nya. Menurut Mayo Clinic, konstipasi adalah gangguan pencernaan yg bikin kita BAB kurang dari 3x dalam seminggu.
Konstipasi jarang bikin komplikasi, kecuali kalo udah jangka panjang atau kronis. komplikasi yang mungkin terjadi antara lain: Hemoroid, Fisura ani, Impaksi feses, dan Prolaps rectum...
Read 25 tweets
Uno pensaría qué -a estas alturas- un hombre le diga a una mujer “estás loca” (o similar) en respuesta a ella diciendo lo que siente o necesita, se sabría que es algo sexista y estigmatiza a quien de verdad padece enfermedades mentales. Pero no, es algo normalizado.

#AbroHilo
Llevamos siglos asociando a las mujeres con la locura/histeria/you name it y utilizando este tipo de lenguaje que denota abuso y es corrosivo hacia ellas, hacia nosotras.
Este artículo de The Guardian lo recapitula muy bien. amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/c…
Read 15 tweets

Related hashtags

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!


This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3.00/month or $30.00/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal Become our Patreon

Thank you for your support!